Show Me Mahj

Lesson 12 of 12

Table etiquette

Animated lesson coming soon. The written lesson is below.

Good mahjong manners are simple: name every discard clearly, keep a steady pace, don't take tiles before the last discard has had a chance to be called, keep your hands off other people's racks, and don't coach other players mid-game unless the table has agreed it's a teaching game.

Example tiles for this lesson: an illustration, not a hand from the NMJL card.

Step by step

  1. Name every discard. Say it clearly so everyone can decide whether to call it.
  2. Keep a steady pace. Think during other players' turns so your own turn is quick.
  3. Wait before you pick. Give everyone a beat to call the last discard.
  4. Hands off other racks. Only touch another player's exposure to redeem a joker, and say what you're doing.
  5. Agree house rules first. Stakes, second Charleston customs and what happens on a mistaken mahjong vary between groups. Settle them before the first game.

Common mistakes

Questions people ask

Is it rude to take a long time on your turn?

A few seconds is normal. Planning during others' turns keeps the game moving.

Can you help a beginner during the game?

Only if the whole table agrees it's a teaching game.

What does "mahj" mean?

It's the players' nickname for the game: "Mahj night," "Do you play mahj?"